From a rather personal and intimate point of view, there's really no surefire way on knowing how to pick up women. People claim it's on the genes or in the cologne or bodywash you wear, though others even claim it's really a Russian roulette. There may be a scientific and time-tested method to it, sure, but many of those tips can become subjective, especially if you've got that six-pack working for you.
First Offense: Cheating
First off, when considering how to pick up women realize that the ends will never justify the means. Simply put, there's no forgiving you if you were able to bag a date for Saturday through deceit, misleading information, alcohol (shame!), or dim lights. Sure, mystique and charm are all the rage, but what happens when the only thing you're wearing is the skin on your back? Will your ruse last forever like some magical spell? Heck, even those things never last for eternity.
Second Offense: Misrepresentation
Also, despite help from a wing man or buddy, you've got to do things yourself. Every person is good at something other than spreading their bum on the couch or tending a bottomless pit in their stomachs. If the women you're trying to get is interested in a quality you posses or the career you've chosen, play it well without bragging.
Third Offense: Repetition
The journey is just as sweet as the destination. Often, men forget their mistakes after a rejection because they say, "It's just too painful to remember". Sorry, boys; only fools put aside the lessons learned and repeat their errors night after night with all the women in the state.
When picking up women, men must remember that women have the right to choose as much as men have the right to be confident and assured. Respect is completely mutual, and altogether healthier than vanity. Keep in mind these tips on how to pick up women when making THE move to save you any further heartache.
Michael Robbinson has been Professional Product Reviewer for over 6 years and counting. To See his Complete Guide for Dating visit http://www.dateanyhotwoman.com
Friday, October 29, 2010
Saturday, July 10, 2010
The True Meanings of True Love
We often associate passion with love. However, passion and love are not synonymous. Passion is an emotional state rather violent and powerful that dominates reason. True passion can degenerate into obsession. Love is what survives when the passion fades. The feeling of love is based on knowledge rather than on the attraction and fantasies.
For love to exist and develop, three conditions are necessary. These three conditions must be channeled toward the same person and be reciprocal.
Admiration
The first condition is admiration. I can only love someone if I admire him or her and if I feel admired by that same person. Admiration is a feeling of joy and fulfillment toward what we consider beautiful, great and noble. There is no love without respect. From the moment we start yelling all kind of stupid things to each other, we are seriously mortgaging our love. We may not always agree with each other, but we must always agree about the fact that the other person is a unique human being, exceptional and worthy of respect and admiration. The decline of admiration is directly proportional to the decrease of love. The loss of wonder and admiration is an exceedingly grave indication, which seriously puts in danger the couple survival.
Dreams
The second condition is the dreams. Two people who love each other share the same projects, and the same dreams. They are two accomplices who plot their future together: their marriage, buying a house, the arrival of the first child and of the following children, their professional success, their social involvements, their vacations and their retirements... That each member of the couple may have individual dreams different from those of the other, there is no reasons to panic or make a big fuss about it. The individual's dreams should not be limited to the couple's dreams. But shouldn't take precedence over the couple's dreams and joint projects. Starting from the time when one is caught dreaming about another he or she, the end of the common dreams are very close to an end. Every couple is based on two people having their own autonomous respective projects and joint projects. Loving, is dreaming about all the possible things that can be accomplished as a couple. When the man devotes all his energy and all his time to his professional success, and the woman lives only for her children, a distance is created between the two lovers, who may find themselves as foreigners in retirement, as soon as the children are gone.
Sexuality
Finally, love is based on physical attraction and sexual attraction. So the phrase "making love" means sex. To love someone is to desire that person, stick close, touch, caress, interpenetrate, fuse. To love someone is to be attracted physically and intellectually by this person. Does a sexual difficulty or a loss of libido means a loss of love? Sometimes, but not always. But it is a clue that something is happening which the couple must deal with at the earliest time possible in order to survive. Passion, by definition, kills the desire, the same way as a good meal makes hunger disappear. Desire comes from frustration and need. To keep desire well and alive, each person must find a fair distance that allows the desire to continue as (we must eat if we want to survive), but waiting till you are hungry maintains the eating pleasure (Lunch is always good when we are hungry). Taking the other for granted is the surest way to kill love.
Therefore love constitutes recognition, admiration, projects and pleasures.
I was born and raised in a rural area in Grand Falls NB. It was a great life on the farm, even though I became a design draftsman, many times I would stop drafting for a while and worked for a summer on the farm. Even though I prefer to write each article one by one, many of my friends are using Max Blog Money 2010 to generate passive income streams by simply creating free blogs provided by Blogger and Word press Check it out. The only reason I'm not using it is that I'm not very computer smart.
For love to exist and develop, three conditions are necessary. These three conditions must be channeled toward the same person and be reciprocal.
Admiration
The first condition is admiration. I can only love someone if I admire him or her and if I feel admired by that same person. Admiration is a feeling of joy and fulfillment toward what we consider beautiful, great and noble. There is no love without respect. From the moment we start yelling all kind of stupid things to each other, we are seriously mortgaging our love. We may not always agree with each other, but we must always agree about the fact that the other person is a unique human being, exceptional and worthy of respect and admiration. The decline of admiration is directly proportional to the decrease of love. The loss of wonder and admiration is an exceedingly grave indication, which seriously puts in danger the couple survival.
Dreams
The second condition is the dreams. Two people who love each other share the same projects, and the same dreams. They are two accomplices who plot their future together: their marriage, buying a house, the arrival of the first child and of the following children, their professional success, their social involvements, their vacations and their retirements... That each member of the couple may have individual dreams different from those of the other, there is no reasons to panic or make a big fuss about it. The individual's dreams should not be limited to the couple's dreams. But shouldn't take precedence over the couple's dreams and joint projects. Starting from the time when one is caught dreaming about another he or she, the end of the common dreams are very close to an end. Every couple is based on two people having their own autonomous respective projects and joint projects. Loving, is dreaming about all the possible things that can be accomplished as a couple. When the man devotes all his energy and all his time to his professional success, and the woman lives only for her children, a distance is created between the two lovers, who may find themselves as foreigners in retirement, as soon as the children are gone.
Sexuality
Finally, love is based on physical attraction and sexual attraction. So the phrase "making love" means sex. To love someone is to desire that person, stick close, touch, caress, interpenetrate, fuse. To love someone is to be attracted physically and intellectually by this person. Does a sexual difficulty or a loss of libido means a loss of love? Sometimes, but not always. But it is a clue that something is happening which the couple must deal with at the earliest time possible in order to survive. Passion, by definition, kills the desire, the same way as a good meal makes hunger disappear. Desire comes from frustration and need. To keep desire well and alive, each person must find a fair distance that allows the desire to continue as (we must eat if we want to survive), but waiting till you are hungry maintains the eating pleasure (Lunch is always good when we are hungry). Taking the other for granted is the surest way to kill love.
Therefore love constitutes recognition, admiration, projects and pleasures.
I was born and raised in a rural area in Grand Falls NB. It was a great life on the farm, even though I became a design draftsman, many times I would stop drafting for a while and worked for a summer on the farm. Even though I prefer to write each article one by one, many of my friends are using Max Blog Money 2010 to generate passive income streams by simply creating free blogs provided by Blogger and Word press Check it out. The only reason I'm not using it is that I'm not very computer smart.
How to Test a Man's Love For You! Here is How to Know Whether His Love is Truly Genuine Or Not
Sometimes you feel that being in love is not enough. You know that you love him and he says that he does too. But you really aren't sure if he is really in love with you or not, so you decide to test him, but how? Here are some of the things that are good enough to test his love for you.
Check his eyes
What is it that you see when you look into his eyes? His eyes give you a glimpse of what is there in his soul and every time that he looks at you do you find his face and his eyes lighting up. If his eyes light up on seeing you he has passed the test of love.
Does he act possessive
Ask one of your office colleagues or one of your friends to act in a slightly flirtatious manner with you in front of your man. See how he reacts. If he accepts the flirting as harmless but still acts a little possessive and jealous then he definitely has passed your love test.
Is he introducing you to his family and friends
Ask him about his friends and family and see how he reacts. Tell him that you would definitely like to meet them someday. See his reaction and gauge. If he is positive about doing so then he has passed.
Is he willing to talk about your future together
Talk about some of your friends getting married or talk of a couple who has grown old together, and see how he reacts to that. If he is willing to talk about your future together with him then he is definitely in love with you.
is he ready to talk about his childhood
Try and talk to him about his childhood and see if he is willing to open up to you. If he willingly talks about it then he loves you enough to let you into his world. If he doesn't then his love for you isn't that advanced yet. With time he will let you into his inner world. You just have to work hard for it.
Is he willing to make a sacrifice for you
Asking a man to make a sacrifice for you is one of the surest ways to test his love for you. Ask him for a small sacrifice like not watching a ball game just to spend time with you. If he is willing to do that to make you happy then he is in love with you.
Can he pass the loyalty test
Ask one of your close friends to hit on him. If he doesn't hit back on her and comes and tells you about it then he has passed the test of love
Pay Close Attention Here-
Now listen carefully! Take 2 minutes to read the next page and you'll discover a stunning trick which will show you- How to Captivate a Man, Make Him Fall in Love with You -- and Give You The World. There is a set of easy to follow psychological tricks which shows any woman how to be irresistible to men. I strongly urge you to read everything on the next page before it's too late and time runs out- Click Here
Check his eyes
What is it that you see when you look into his eyes? His eyes give you a glimpse of what is there in his soul and every time that he looks at you do you find his face and his eyes lighting up. If his eyes light up on seeing you he has passed the test of love.
Does he act possessive
Ask one of your office colleagues or one of your friends to act in a slightly flirtatious manner with you in front of your man. See how he reacts. If he accepts the flirting as harmless but still acts a little possessive and jealous then he definitely has passed your love test.
Is he introducing you to his family and friends
Ask him about his friends and family and see how he reacts. Tell him that you would definitely like to meet them someday. See his reaction and gauge. If he is positive about doing so then he has passed.
Is he willing to talk about your future together
Talk about some of your friends getting married or talk of a couple who has grown old together, and see how he reacts to that. If he is willing to talk about your future together with him then he is definitely in love with you.
is he ready to talk about his childhood
Try and talk to him about his childhood and see if he is willing to open up to you. If he willingly talks about it then he loves you enough to let you into his world. If he doesn't then his love for you isn't that advanced yet. With time he will let you into his inner world. You just have to work hard for it.
Is he willing to make a sacrifice for you
Asking a man to make a sacrifice for you is one of the surest ways to test his love for you. Ask him for a small sacrifice like not watching a ball game just to spend time with you. If he is willing to do that to make you happy then he is in love with you.
Can he pass the loyalty test
Ask one of your close friends to hit on him. If he doesn't hit back on her and comes and tells you about it then he has passed the test of love
Pay Close Attention Here-
Now listen carefully! Take 2 minutes to read the next page and you'll discover a stunning trick which will show you- How to Captivate a Man, Make Him Fall in Love with You -- and Give You The World. There is a set of easy to follow psychological tricks which shows any woman how to be irresistible to men. I strongly urge you to read everything on the next page before it's too late and time runs out- Click Here
Saturday, January 9, 2010
Attracting Beautiful Women - 4 Tips to Get You Going
Attracting Beautiful Women - 4 Tips to Get You Going
Just about every guy that you come across has the dream of being able to attract and date beautiful women. You probably have it in your head that this is nearly impossible for YOU. However, that is definitely not the way you should look at it, if you really want to make your lifestyle a bit better and start attracting beautiful women. See, your mind state is important when it comes to your success at attracting women and if you have the wrong one, then you will not even get yourself going in the right direction.
Don't assume that you have to be the best looking guy on the block to attract beautiful women. There are too many, almost countless, examples of men that are nothing to brag about, yet they have no problem when it comes to getting female attention. You too can become one of these guys. You know, the ones that leave other guys going, how does he do it?
That could be YOU!
Here's 4 tips to get you going and start attracting beautiful women in YOUR life:
1. The foundation is confidence. If you don't think that you have what it takes to attract beautiful women, then nothing will really help you out. You have to remain confident when you are around women, no matter how attractive she might be. When you lose that confidence, you have just defeated yourself.
2. You've got to be able to talk to women. Tongue tied, stuttering and stammering. Those are the signs of a guy that is going to get nowhere fast with a woman. If you really want to make her want you, if you really want to create attraction with her, then you have to know how to talk to women. And talking about your job or the weather is not going to cut it.
3. You've got to know how to flirt with a woman. Flirting is the basis of creating attraction with a woman. Being able to flirt with a woman in the right way is like getting your foot in the door with her. If you cannot flirt with a woman, you can easily learn how to do this, just like any other skill. Don't be discouraged if you are not a natural flirt.
4. Your body language has to say the right things about you. People do respond to a person's body language. And for some reason, women are way more in tune at interpreting body language than men are. So, when you are around a woman that you are interested in, you have to be able to hold yourself in the right way. Otherwise, your body language could easily turn a woman off to YOU.
Just about every guy that you come across has the dream of being able to attract and date beautiful women. You probably have it in your head that this is nearly impossible for YOU. However, that is definitely not the way you should look at it, if you really want to make your lifestyle a bit better and start attracting beautiful women. See, your mind state is important when it comes to your success at attracting women and if you have the wrong one, then you will not even get yourself going in the right direction.
Don't assume that you have to be the best looking guy on the block to attract beautiful women. There are too many, almost countless, examples of men that are nothing to brag about, yet they have no problem when it comes to getting female attention. You too can become one of these guys. You know, the ones that leave other guys going, how does he do it?
That could be YOU!
Here's 4 tips to get you going and start attracting beautiful women in YOUR life:
1. The foundation is confidence. If you don't think that you have what it takes to attract beautiful women, then nothing will really help you out. You have to remain confident when you are around women, no matter how attractive she might be. When you lose that confidence, you have just defeated yourself.
2. You've got to be able to talk to women. Tongue tied, stuttering and stammering. Those are the signs of a guy that is going to get nowhere fast with a woman. If you really want to make her want you, if you really want to create attraction with her, then you have to know how to talk to women. And talking about your job or the weather is not going to cut it.
3. You've got to know how to flirt with a woman. Flirting is the basis of creating attraction with a woman. Being able to flirt with a woman in the right way is like getting your foot in the door with her. If you cannot flirt with a woman, you can easily learn how to do this, just like any other skill. Don't be discouraged if you are not a natural flirt.
4. Your body language has to say the right things about you. People do respond to a person's body language. And for some reason, women are way more in tune at interpreting body language than men are. So, when you are around a woman that you are interested in, you have to be able to hold yourself in the right way. Otherwise, your body language could easily turn a woman off to YOU.
How to Really Know If a Woman Likes You - Does She Show These 3 Killer Attraction Signals?
How to Really Know If a Woman Likes You - Does She Show These 3 Killer Attraction Signals?
Finding out if a girl's feelings for you are genuine would probably be one of the hardest things for you to figure out. See, if you cannot figure out whether a girl actually fancies you or is merely playing with your head, then it would be impossible for you to actually take things further with her.
Because of this, it would be absolutely essential to find out for certain whether she has feelings for you or not. Do not worry, though; we are here to help. Here are several guaranteed ways to completely decipher whether a girl fancies you or not. Keep reading to find out these techniques and reach outstanding results...
How To Really Know If A Woman Likes You - Does She Show These 3 Killer Attraction Signals
Sign 1: She will touch your hand as she talks. Take note that this will seem natural and not rehearsed, as you might think. When a woman touches you, it means that she likes you - simply because a woman will NEVER want to touch someone she dislikes or is just indifferent over.
Sign 2: She will tilt her head as she talks to you. Plus, if she fiddles with her hair as she does so, you should know that the prize is all yours to take.
When she tilts her head and plays with her hair, it is an "animalistic" sign that she is displaying her femininity to you. When she shows these signs, you can be sure that she likes you.
Sign 3: She gets very excited and enthusiastic whenever you are there. She may also show bits of discomfort and self-consciousness while she's at it.
This is a mix of both happiness and nervousness - which will get her to feel goosebumps in her stomach. When she feels that, then no matter what you do or say, you will look great in her eyes.
Now that you have figured out how she truly feels about you, what can you do to take things even further? It's easy: use hypnosis. One thing you could focus on is the tactic of hypnosis known as 'fractionation'.
This tactic involves sending a girl on a roller coaster of emotions and making her feel pleasure and pain alternately, quickly anchoring any positive and pleasurable states towards you. This will result in her becoming emotionally dependent on you in no time.
The fractionation tactic comes in a two-step formula which any guy can use to make a woman fall in love quickly - often in 15 minutes or even less. The great thing about the fractionation formula is that anyone can use it with great success - even for a guy with little or no experience in dating and seducing women. Killer tactic indeed.
Finding out if a girl's feelings for you are genuine would probably be one of the hardest things for you to figure out. See, if you cannot figure out whether a girl actually fancies you or is merely playing with your head, then it would be impossible for you to actually take things further with her.
Because of this, it would be absolutely essential to find out for certain whether she has feelings for you or not. Do not worry, though; we are here to help. Here are several guaranteed ways to completely decipher whether a girl fancies you or not. Keep reading to find out these techniques and reach outstanding results...
How To Really Know If A Woman Likes You - Does She Show These 3 Killer Attraction Signals
Sign 1: She will touch your hand as she talks. Take note that this will seem natural and not rehearsed, as you might think. When a woman touches you, it means that she likes you - simply because a woman will NEVER want to touch someone she dislikes or is just indifferent over.
Sign 2: She will tilt her head as she talks to you. Plus, if she fiddles with her hair as she does so, you should know that the prize is all yours to take.
When she tilts her head and plays with her hair, it is an "animalistic" sign that she is displaying her femininity to you. When she shows these signs, you can be sure that she likes you.
Sign 3: She gets very excited and enthusiastic whenever you are there. She may also show bits of discomfort and self-consciousness while she's at it.
This is a mix of both happiness and nervousness - which will get her to feel goosebumps in her stomach. When she feels that, then no matter what you do or say, you will look great in her eyes.
Now that you have figured out how she truly feels about you, what can you do to take things even further? It's easy: use hypnosis. One thing you could focus on is the tactic of hypnosis known as 'fractionation'.
This tactic involves sending a girl on a roller coaster of emotions and making her feel pleasure and pain alternately, quickly anchoring any positive and pleasurable states towards you. This will result in her becoming emotionally dependent on you in no time.
The fractionation tactic comes in a two-step formula which any guy can use to make a woman fall in love quickly - often in 15 minutes or even less. The great thing about the fractionation formula is that anyone can use it with great success - even for a guy with little or no experience in dating and seducing women. Killer tactic indeed.
Approach Women - Approaching Women Doesn't Have to Be Hard
Approach Women - Approaching Women Doesn't Have to Be Hard
Most men, when it comes to approaching women, really don't have a clue. I want to share some vital information with you today about how you approach women the right way.
When you approach women you need to make sure that you do not give out the impression that you're desperate. If the woman see's your a desperate guy, and that you're making too much of an effort in your approach, she'll spot it straight away.
Never pay a woman too many compliments either, and NEVER agree with every word that comes out of her mouth. These types of actions will make her feel like she has power over you, and that the woman is inferior. Being a nice guy never gets you anywhere with women in the dating game, except in the friend zone.
When you approach a woman, never pay too much attention to them and seek their approval. Don't stare at the woman for ages either, and THEN go up to her. If you see a woman you like, just go straight up and introduce yourself without no hesitation.
Be yourself and be sincere as well when you approach women. Never fake anything, because it will only get you in trouble if you're found out. Ask her questions that will be able to give you some kind of inclination of whether you have something in common. Approach every woman with confidence too. Women love a man with self confidence because they find it sexy.
Check out our site below for more great tips on how to approach women today.
Most men, when it comes to approaching women, really don't have a clue. I want to share some vital information with you today about how you approach women the right way.
When you approach women you need to make sure that you do not give out the impression that you're desperate. If the woman see's your a desperate guy, and that you're making too much of an effort in your approach, she'll spot it straight away.
Never pay a woman too many compliments either, and NEVER agree with every word that comes out of her mouth. These types of actions will make her feel like she has power over you, and that the woman is inferior. Being a nice guy never gets you anywhere with women in the dating game, except in the friend zone.
When you approach a woman, never pay too much attention to them and seek their approval. Don't stare at the woman for ages either, and THEN go up to her. If you see a woman you like, just go straight up and introduce yourself without no hesitation.
Be yourself and be sincere as well when you approach women. Never fake anything, because it will only get you in trouble if you're found out. Ask her questions that will be able to give you some kind of inclination of whether you have something in common. Approach every woman with confidence too. Women love a man with self confidence because they find it sexy.
Check out our site below for more great tips on how to approach women today.
How to Attract Women - Where Most Guys Go Wrong
How to Attract Women - Where Most Guys Go Wrong
You have to admit that knowing how to attract women has got to be one of the most enticing skills that you could learn. With the exception of learning how to make more money, being able to attract beautiful women usually tops the list of dreams for many guys out there. We all know though, that the reality of it all can be a little bit, well, less than satisfactory.
Most guys tend to find themselves on the wrong side of things when it comes to attracting women. Instead of getting attention, they either get rejection or nothing at all.
Kind of makes you wonder if there could be a solution to turn things around. You might be wondering if there is a way to learn how to attract women so that you can go from "dud" to STUD in as short of time as possible. Well, there is, but first, you have to understand where most guys go WRONG.
This will allow you to skip the most common mistakes that guys make with women and move right on to the things that work to attract a woman.
Here are a few common areas where guys tend to stray from the path of attracting beautiful women:
1. Not feeling comfortable around women. If you feel uncomfortable when you are with women, they are going to notice this. Even when you think that you are doing a pretty good job of covering it up, they will take notice. The only way to get comfortable being around women is to go past your comfort zone and start to interact with women that you normally would shy away from.
2. Relying on cheesy trick or tips to try and pick up women. If you really want to learn how to attract women, you have to leave all of those gimmicks where they belong. Far from YOU. The more experienced you are with women, the more you will realize just how useless most of these tips and tricks to pick up women really are. It's much better to gain some experience and learn how to use real techniques that create rapport and attraction.
3. Not being able to take things to another level. If you are shy to make a move or to start flirting and turning on the heat with a woman, then you are going to have to learn to get past this. A lot of men will have a real shot with a woman and then completely blow it as they do not really make any move to get past the initial interaction.
You have to admit that knowing how to attract women has got to be one of the most enticing skills that you could learn. With the exception of learning how to make more money, being able to attract beautiful women usually tops the list of dreams for many guys out there. We all know though, that the reality of it all can be a little bit, well, less than satisfactory.
Most guys tend to find themselves on the wrong side of things when it comes to attracting women. Instead of getting attention, they either get rejection or nothing at all.
Kind of makes you wonder if there could be a solution to turn things around. You might be wondering if there is a way to learn how to attract women so that you can go from "dud" to STUD in as short of time as possible. Well, there is, but first, you have to understand where most guys go WRONG.
This will allow you to skip the most common mistakes that guys make with women and move right on to the things that work to attract a woman.
Here are a few common areas where guys tend to stray from the path of attracting beautiful women:
1. Not feeling comfortable around women. If you feel uncomfortable when you are with women, they are going to notice this. Even when you think that you are doing a pretty good job of covering it up, they will take notice. The only way to get comfortable being around women is to go past your comfort zone and start to interact with women that you normally would shy away from.
2. Relying on cheesy trick or tips to try and pick up women. If you really want to learn how to attract women, you have to leave all of those gimmicks where they belong. Far from YOU. The more experienced you are with women, the more you will realize just how useless most of these tips and tricks to pick up women really are. It's much better to gain some experience and learn how to use real techniques that create rapport and attraction.
3. Not being able to take things to another level. If you are shy to make a move or to start flirting and turning on the heat with a woman, then you are going to have to learn to get past this. A lot of men will have a real shot with a woman and then completely blow it as they do not really make any move to get past the initial interaction.
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